A good friend and former colleague sent the following story to me. I do not know if it is, in fact, true or not, but it is beautiful nonetheless. It reaffirms my passion for working with children, and I hope it does for you as well.
At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves children with
learning disabilities, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that
would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and
its
Dedicated staff, he offered a question:
'When not interfered
with by outside influences, everything nature does, is done with
perfection.
Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do.
He cannot understand things as other children do.
Where is the natural
order of things in my son?'
The audience was stilled by the query.
The
father continued. 'I believe that when a child like Shay, who was mentally and
physically disabled comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human
nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that
child.'
Then he told the following story:
Shay and I had walked
past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you
think they'll let me play?' I knew that most of the boys would not want someone
like Shay on their team, but as a father I also understood that if my son
were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and
some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.
I
approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay
could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, 'We're losing by six
runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and
we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning..'
Shay struggled over
to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt.. I watched
with a small tear in my eye and warmth in my heart. The boys saw my joy at my
son being accepted.
In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team
scored a few runs but was still behind by three.
In the top of the ninth
inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits
came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field,
grinning from ear to ear as I waved to him from the stands.
In the bottom
of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again.
Now, with two outs and the
bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be
next at bat.
At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their
chance to win the game?
Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone
knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold
the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.
However, as Shay
stepped up to the
Plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was
putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to
lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact.
The first
pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed.
The pitcher again took a
few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay.
As the pitch came
in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the
pitcher.
The game would now be over.
The pitcher picked up the
soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first
baseman.
Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the
game.
Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's
head, out of reach of all team mates.
Everyone from the stands and both
teams started yelling, 'Shay, run to first!
Run to first!'
Never
in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base.
He
scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.
Everyone yelled,
'Run to second, run to second!'
Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran
towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base.
By the
time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball . The
smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his
team.
He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag,
but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the
ball high and far over the third-baseman's head.
Shay ran toward third
base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward
home.
All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way
Shay'
Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help
him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to
third!
Shay, run to third!'
As Shay rounded third, the boys from both
teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run
home!'
Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the
hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team
'That day',
said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, 'the boys from both
teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this
world'.
Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter,
having never forgotten being the hero and making me so happy, and coming home
and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!